Eighteen, wow has it been fifteen years since I first met their autistic son in our preschool? He came to our class as a three year old with big brown eyes and a mullet of long dark curls. He has since grown into a handsome teenager who stands over 6 feet tall weighing at least 300 pounds and, despite his age and size, he is still a huge fan of Thomas the train.
The husband and I were privileged to ride bikes with our friend and his boy. We were able to witness first hand how this father and son team trains for the Special Olympics. We met them at the park and I watched them unload the bike and prepare themselves. Working in unison like a synchronized swimming team, they put on their jackets, helmets and placed their water bottles in the proper place. When they were all set and ready, they climbed on their bike and sat side by side.
The bike has two handle bars and two sets of pedals a set of brakes and gears. Our friend controls the brakes and steering while his son changes gears and assists in the pedaling. I was so excited to watch this team of draft horses ride but to make it fair the husband had to pull his own weight equal to theirs. He's all about fairness so he loaded up some bricks behind his trailer.
Our path lead us around a lake and as I was enjoying the fall scenery, out of the blue something whizzed in front of me. Come to find out it was a toy train being hurled in to the water. I learned this is no ordinary lake, underneath the water lies a collection of Thomas the train engines and cars. Why this Special Olympian does this? No one really knows, maybe he's paying tribute to the lake by sacrificing his prize possessions but if it was ever to get drained, they would curiously find a graveyard of trains lying at the bottom.
The ceremonial lake |
We rode 8 miles under an hour, pretty good time for the pedaling duo. It was such an honor and a pleasure to accompany them on their ride. Our friend was just as pleased to have his son experience riding in a social setting contrary to race day, which is all about passing the next person.
Not often do I get the opportunity to see our preschool youngsters in their teenage years let alone ride along side one that's an incredible athlete. So even though he has the blue ribbons hanging on the wall, the ride for the husband and I was worth it's weight in gold.
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Awesome & inspiring, I love it. What beautiful scenery also. :)
It makes me think about two little individuals with autism that I work with. I think about how much they will learn and how much they will change in the next 10 years. What will the teenage years bring for them?
Thanks for sharing your awesome outing.
That is so cool!
What a wonderful team...father and son! Autism is such an interesting disability. One mom said it best, "If you meet one child with autism, you've met only one child." The spectrum is such a variety and so different for each.
BTW, beautiful scenery too!
What a great experience!
I love this! Talk about Quality Time... that boy and his father are probably the best thing for eachother - and spending the day outside (chucking Thomas engines into the water) sounds like a great time with friends!
So glad you got to share it with them!
That is so sweet. My cousin has a boy with autism and while he does have a few limitations, he's also very gifted in other ways. He got to participate in special olympics too!
Bike riding is so fun and relaxing, glad you could share in that experience.
Such great team work and dedication! Hope they do well in the Special Olympics and inspire others to take part too...
That is really neat. Thanks for sharing, I love the drowning the train part. I wonder what goes through his mind.
I have never seen a bike like that! Our longtime neighbors have an autistic son. I am amazed at how much he can do and how far he has come. Good teachers and good parents.
How inspiring! And what great pictures :)
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Wow... what a team they make. I think it's awesome they are training for the Special olympics!! 8 miles in under an hour.. pretty impressive.
Beautiful pictures and what an inspirational story . . . thanks for sharing this with us. So amazing.
That is so neat! And I love the throwing of the train tradition.
That is so interesting! I loved that story. I really loved the Thomas the Train part. My 2 y/o loves him! Thanks for sharing. :)
What a blessing! As a mom to special needs kids (cystic fibrosis, ADHD) I have a special place in my heart for kids who have extraordinary struggles. Thank you for the investment you made in this boy's life!
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