Saturday, May 12, 2012

Coloring outside the lines


Hank Ketcham, the author and illustrator for the comic strip Dennis the Menace, used his real life son as inspiration. This lovable yet precocious freckled face little boy whose penchant for mischief, was continually putting his parents patience to the test.

I believe he couldn't help himself. Truly, it's the forces of nature working against him.

For instance, you take an enthusiastic kid who's curious to a fault, has an over abundance of energy, tells it like it is and wants to get his hands on everything your doing, then wrap it up in a five year old body and tell me, that's not a recipe for disaster. If anyone can attest to it, it's Mr. Wilson.

If I didn't know better, I would have thought Mr. Ketchams son was one of our very own preschoolers. A blond hair, blue eyed boy whose disposition parallels that of Dennis.

What sets these two menaces apart is our little guy doesn't come from the traditional setting where the mother is a stay-at- home mom whose always there reassuring him and offering a hug when things get overwhelming.

No.

Our 'Dennis' lives with a foster family of five other children, has a mother who is somewhere in the system, and from the looks of his mischievous behavior, doesn't do well on visit days.

 He's fiercely independent and constantly uses his own catch phrase, "No, my do it."

He's every where but where he should be, has an inventive alternative to how things get done and, like Dennis the Menace, on an occasion, will find himself unwillingly sitting in a chair feeling misunderstood.

Who could blame him really. The only thing in his life he has control of is himself, everything else in his environment is controlled for him.

So when the winds of our 'Dennis' start blowing and you can feel a category 5 hurricane in the mist, I'll wrap my arms around the little menace and reassure him everything is going to be alright.






13 comments:

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Shelly said...

I have known some little Dennises in my time, too. I love that he finds such love and kindness from you. Happy Mother's Day~

Andrea said...

He is so lucky to have someone like you to reassure him. Happy Mother's Day!

Rachel said...

This made me happy and sad all at the same time.

Glad he finds that kindness in you. Sad it might not be as abundant elsewhere.

And I'm kinda convicted about being a wee bit frustrated by another "Dennis" in Itty Bit's class.

So thankful that God treats us like this when we need some TLC.

Happiest Mother's Day to you!

Julia said...

It's so nice of you to show him some love and reassurance. Poor little fella, he really needs to have more people like you in his life.

Happy Mother's Day to you Siami. JB

" Hit It......." said...

It is wonderful that you understand the situation for what it is. I read this and wanted to adopt the little boy. Why is it that anyone can have a child and not everyone can be a parent? This poor little boy doesn't deserve this. I want to hug him too.

btw - keep up the good work.

Connie said...

You are amazing. Your mother heart is so right! I love that there are people like you that are put in the paths of such children. So sad what life has dealt this sweet child of God, I am sure your kindness has not gone unnoticed by him.

Anonymous said...

Beautiful, little Dennis is better because of you :)

Mom of 12 said...

We all have our own little Dennis don't we? Mine is three with Curly hair...
Happy Mother's Day!
Sandy

Unknown said...

This is so sweet! He really needs people like you along his way. He is so blessed that you are his teacher. Loved this!

wendy said...

HIS world, sounds like a frightening place for such a little boy. Where are his saftey nets.
All his needed hugs. (which I am sure he thrives on from you)
I fear there are too many such little girls and boys in the "system"

Crystal Pistol said...

This makes me sad. Poor baby. I wish I could keep all the little Dennises in the world at my house and love the fear out of them.

He is lucky to have your hugs and understanding.

Welcome to the Garden of Egan said...

That made me hurt. I know it happens, I see it, but I always hurt.
Poor little stinkers. It's such a blessing in their lives to have an angel like you in their life.